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Are you in a violent relationship?

• Does your partner get angry when you talk on the phone?
• Does he/she open your mail?
• Does he/she keep you from seeing your friends?
• Is he/she angry when you are just a little late getting home?
• Does he/she want you home when he/she is home?
• Do you worry about what he/she thinks of your makeup, hairstyle or clothes?
• Do you ask your partner who you can see and where you can go?
• Are you careful of what you say so that your partner won’t get upset?
• Do you feel that you are “walking on eggshells?
• Does he/she call you names like “stupid”, “bitch” or “cunt”?
• Does he/she tell you what is “wrong” with you in front of other people?
• Has he/she made you do things that made you feel ashamed?
• Does he/she say “no one else would want you”?
• Does he/she threaten to leave you?
• Has he/she refused to “let” you go out, unless you do as he/she says?
• Does he/she say they will hit you or beat you if you don’t obey him/her?
• Does he/she keep you up late, asking about your past relationships?
• Do you work so hard to please him/her that you feel worn out?
• Do you feel sick, yet you are not sure what is wrong?
• Are you unable to do things you used to do easily?
• Does he/she demand that dinner be served right on the minute?
• Does he/she insist that the house look “just so”?
• Do you have to report how you spend every dollar?
• After he/she has been mean to you, does he/she act sweet and loving?
• After your partner has hit you, does he/she give you a present or take you out?
• When you decide to leave, does he/she give you hope for change?

If you found yourself checking many of these questions, there is a pattern of abusive control in your relationship. If You would like to talk to someone please call. Our services are free and confidential.

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